Are you clear with your spouse about what is important to you?
Do you have good personal habits?
Are you fun to be around?
Are you willing to take the first step to improve things or to work out problems?
Do you keep hassles and arguments short, to the point, and under control?
Are you open and up-front about what you think and feel?
Do you know what your spouse thinks is important in your marriage?
Do you manage relationships with relatives and ex-relatives in ways that keep them from interfering with your marriage?
Are you a good money manager?
Do you do all you can to help your relationship succeed?
Do you have healthy relationships and activities outside your marriage?
Do you and your spouse enjoy sex with each other?
Do you stay true to your personal values and beliefs?
If you were your spouse, would you enjoy being married to you?