Are you clear with your spouse about what is
important to you?

Do you have good personal
habits?

Are you fun to be around?

Are you willing to take the
first step to improve things or to work out problems?

Do you keep hassles and
arguments short, to the point, and under control?

Are you open and up-front
about what you think and feel?

Do you know what your spouse
thinks is important in your marriage?


Do you manage relationships
with relatives and ex-relatives in ways that keep them from interfering with
your marriage?

Are you a good money
manager?

Do you do all you can to
help your relationship succeed?

Do you have healthy
relationships and activities outside your marriage?

Do you and your spouse enjoy
sex with each other?

Do you stay true to your
personal values and beliefs?

If you were your spouse,
would you enjoy being married to you?